tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post3014881659974918712..comments2024-03-14T16:03:32.434-04:00Comments on Gertie's New Blog for Better Sewing: WTF Sewing Moment on GleeGertiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04314542159287533507noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-33714612701585007872010-06-14T12:57:35.333-04:002010-06-14T12:57:35.333-04:00so...i just discovered your blog, and it's gre...so...i just discovered your blog, and it's great (sewing, feminism, retro clothes - it's such a winning combination). hi.<br /><br />glee is also a guilty pleasure of mine (and i may need to make quin's entire outfit for the gaga episode. and carry some sort of lethal-looking star with me everywhere) but they've let me down so many times where feminism is concerned...for example, remember the madonna episode, where at the end finn is all respectful and 'you can make your own choices about who you date' to rachel...and then spoils it completely by telling jessie he 'won't make any moves on his girl'? yes. for a mainstream show that markets itself as pc, it really fails on the feminism.n.http://http//:designsonfragility.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-80963606161974755952010-05-30T17:42:01.059-04:002010-05-30T17:42:01.059-04:00I feel the whole thing makes sense. If, in fact, ...I feel the whole thing makes sense. If, in fact, Rachel's mom is the director of Vocal Adrenaline, which she is, she would have an entire costume shop at her disposal. I was in theater a lot in high school and I know that to make a costume look fantastic (as Rachel's did) you don't necessarily need to be able to sew. If you have pieces that work together (like a dress that can be re-purposed), cardboard, tape, glue and scissors you can make a fabulous costume in just a few hours...I had quite a few costumes with glitter glue instead of beads, taped hems, and safety pinned waists that looked incredible on and amazing on stage.~Mandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13805169070919798999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-23666993848961194722010-05-30T14:43:34.630-04:002010-05-30T14:43:34.630-04:00Actually the moment that got me (and took be out o...Actually the moment that got me (and took be out of the story) was that she goes to this woman she just meet and asks her to sew her costume. <br /><br />One: Is that what you should do when your BRAND new relationship is on shaky legs? Two: How in the earth did Shelby do that outfit in one night...it wasn't simple. HUGE Three: Didn't she just give away that her glee club was also doing something on Lady GaGa even though they just got caught spying. There was no logic to that seen, she could have at least said my mom bought me something?lsaspaceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17058968076601943527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-45346549799484397732010-05-29T03:55:18.197-04:002010-05-29T03:55:18.197-04:00I haven't seen the episode yet (I fancy Glee, ...I haven't seen the episode yet (I fancy Glee, but don't even have french TV), but what surprises me till now is rather the fact Rachel always mentions her dads at plural. When it's an equivalent for 'my parents', that's really OK to me, but when it comes to their skills, It makes them sound like Tweedle-Dee and Tweedle-Dum. <br />Most of the commenters mentioned people of both genders, able to sew or not. Why would both her fathers be unable to sew as if the fact they're of the same gender would make them identical on every other point, including personnal skills? But, yes, making them both able to sew would have been just as silly...<br />Btw, if Kurt doesn't have a mother, does it mean he sewed his costume himself, or did his Dad sew it for him? I'd love to know!Carlotta Stermariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06126717521926678079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-24258072972675794842010-05-28T23:52:25.191-04:002010-05-28T23:52:25.191-04:00I admit the gay Dads not being able to sew went co...I admit the gay Dads not being able to sew went completely over my head, I didn't know that was a stereotype. What bugged me was Rachael walks in saying, "we stayed up all night coming up with a costume that represents my missed childhood" (or something to that effect) in my mind that meant her Dads cared about her enough to staple beanie babies to her outfit in an attempt to help her make her statement. When she gets her Mom to help her make the outfit it is a rockin' outfit but it doesn't say ANYTHING, it doesn't make a statement. That bugged me.Lavinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11323445386487182708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-42618645604238782312010-05-27T19:42:21.236-04:002010-05-27T19:42:21.236-04:00Wow Gertie! I thought the exact same thing!!! She ...Wow Gertie! I thought the exact same thing!!! She needs a mom TO SEW?! Seriously?<br /><br />Glee has more and more rubbed me the wrong way. The morality messages coupled with the hit-over-your-head messages about acceptance, love, etc are really quite annoying. And then they go and make some comment about how Rachel needs a mom to sew a costume. Way to be hypocritical. I guess I keep watching because I LOVE Sue and I keep hoping the show will get better....saranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-21105144480304537302010-05-27T09:37:34.661-04:002010-05-27T09:37:34.661-04:00Gertie, I wanted to come back to this and comment ...Gertie, I wanted to come back to this and comment again because it bothered me all night (yes, I'm anal like that) that I left out the second half of the stereotype, namely that the mother could sew. <br />Once again, I didn't take this as a stereotyped comment on women. I assumed Shelby would need to know how to sew in order to design the costumes for Vocal Adrenaline. <br />Ok, got that off my chest, I can now quit thinking about it and singing Gaga all day. Phew!Kellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16343410224557156646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-10516515046025234842010-05-27T09:05:42.477-04:002010-05-27T09:05:42.477-04:00I'll start off by saying how much I love your ...I'll start off by saying how much I love your blog. It's been an enormous source of inspiration as I sew on my own projects. As far as the Glee episode goes, I've yet to see it (iTunes will soon resolve this minor detail! Hehe) but the logic behind Rachel's line DOES seem a bit redundant. I don't think the ability to sew is contingent on sex - most of my girlfriends can't sew, and when I expressed an interest in sewing my own mother tried to dissuade me b/c it wasn't as prestigious as, say, medicine (though her mom, my grandmother, was a seamstress).Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00311374399951513220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-40901149061847795612010-05-27T00:18:46.095-04:002010-05-27T00:18:46.095-04:00I didn't feel odd about either biological pare...I didn't feel odd about either biological parent/ability to sew. I was frustrated (as others have mentioned) about the seeming ability to construct a well-fitted strapless dress with all of those extra details nearly instantaneously.<br /><br />Hello? it would take an hour just to buy the fabric, for crying out loud! I mean, they supposedly live in Lima, Ohio!<br /><br />Now, it would have been more authentic (and more realistic) if Rachel had reported that her mom found her the dress in the costume closet.neighbourhood.galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04312982850571575165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-19584215554941229432010-05-26T17:32:27.985-04:002010-05-26T17:32:27.985-04:00Ha, I had the exact same WTF moment when I saw it,...Ha, I had the exact same WTF moment when I saw it, and actually thought to myself "I wonder if Gertie will bring it up on her blog?" Guides honour I did.<br /><br />I will also confess that one of my firts, knee-jerk reaction thoughts was "her dads are gay, can't they sew?" But if the message was to break down stereotypes it was pretty conflicted by suggesting that mom/woman = ability to sew.<br /><br />I was, like Amanda, annoyed with the constant projection by TV/movies that sewing something elaborate happens instantaeously. I really think this may have a hand in why the craft continues to be generally undervalued in our culture. It's made to seem overly simplistic and that cheezes me off.<br /><br />That said, I just can't get enough of Glee. I came late to the party courtesy of a cross-continental flight in April and ended up buying the first season because I didn't want to wait for the discs to come back to the video rental store. And while I'm not terribly familiar with the whole Lady Gaga thing, I really enjoyed her as this week's theme.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-9363751496199647362010-05-26T14:44:39.539-04:002010-05-26T14:44:39.539-04:00I agree with most of the posters above. Sewing is ...I agree with most of the posters above. Sewing is quickly becoming an antiquated art. Most people (male or female) right now don't know how to sew and are very reliant on mass market throwaway fashion, which makes me sad.Janicehttp://www.meladori.com/shesinfashionnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-71176779588599196862010-05-26T14:36:05.019-04:002010-05-26T14:36:05.019-04:00I like the thoughts of folks on here. I'm with...I like the thoughts of folks on here. I'm with Kelli, tho. If the dads were gay AND sewed, that would have been a little over the top. Also, the writers needed Rachel to go back to her mom to reconnect, so why not over the need for a fabulous Gaga costume? <br /><br />I'm really hoping we'll get to "meet" Rachel's dads, tho. Casting would be a HOOT.<br /><br />Also, just wanted to add a little "Woo Hoo!" for Curt's dad. His speech to Finn was amazing.Darcihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02936847220360997738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-35123839685230355762010-05-26T14:05:05.356-04:002010-05-26T14:05:05.356-04:00I've grown up with a dad who sews and a mum wh...I've grown up with a dad who sews and a mum who can sew but doesn't choose to (she gets my dad or me to do alterations instead!) so it's never been a big deal to me. More often than not, most people don't sew anymore anyway, regardless of gender.<br />Although, having said that, the thing that has always bugged me is in single sex schools they do reinforce the stereotype girls cook/sew and boys don't, by not having food/textile lessons available in boys schools. In my experience that is (I went to an all-girls and my brother goes to an all-boys) and it may vary elsewhere in the country/world, so feel free to disagree with me. <br />Hmm, anyway, that is perhaps not wholly relevant to the glee point, but it's always seemed a tad problematic to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-1137225134844756412010-05-26T12:54:53.510-04:002010-05-26T12:54:53.510-04:00both my husband and i are getting a little tired i...both my husband and i are getting a little tired in general of TV decpiting men as beer swilling, grill happy, engine obsessed, inept DOLTS. <br /><br />it's not terribly pleasing to watch Madison Avenue and Hollywood attempt to identify men by the lowest common denominator of all stereotypes, instead of portraying men on these shows as something to aspire to, and be proud of. <br /><br />Just as with women, then are a million different permutations of men. It's insulting to our intelligence in general to depict men, and boys, as automatons whose only skills seem to be based in absolute oblivion. <br /><br />i don't watch Glee. I don't watch TV that much anymore in general. it's kind of a special night kind of thing. Write to the creators and the networks. They need to hear all of you.<br /><br />EACAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-19948325450442655382010-05-26T12:07:01.397-04:002010-05-26T12:07:01.397-04:00Amen! Right as she said, "My dads don't s...Amen! Right as she said, "My dads don't sew" I died a little bit inside. I know the story line needed to go on about her needing a mom, but they had SUCH an awesome opportunity there. And hello, how did Kurt get his awesome costume?!!!! He doesn't have a mom either.Sally Deckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08338135647596390742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-21078485231803293402010-05-26T11:59:35.096-04:002010-05-26T11:59:35.096-04:00I'm with you, Gertie. I found the gender ster...I'm with you, Gertie. I found the gender stereotyping to be jarring, especially as someone whose mother doesn't sew. She learnt in school but doesn't remember anything. When I asked her about interfacing when I was learning she said, 'I don't think they had that back then'.<br /><br />Everyone has good points about the potential stereotyping of gay dads who are amazing at sewing, but if the dads were able to sew just not spectacularly well this could have been pretty easily avoided.Mayanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-21326600147848452952010-05-26T11:11:13.193-04:002010-05-26T11:11:13.193-04:00I am not a fan of the "Glee," I endured ...I am not a fan of the "Glee," I endured one show of Ryan Murphy disappointing me after season 2, I will not go there again. Not to mention, for as much as I love musical theatre, I really dislike the way the kids on "Glee" sing.<br /><br />I think the stereotype cuts both ways, but knowing Murphy's writing, chances are he just didn't really care and wanted to use it as a plot device. Not sure if that makes it better or worse...<br /><br />For what it is worth, my mom still does my hemming, but she can't use a machine to save her life. My father sort of mends things like a drunk blind man. So I guess they sort of reinforce the stereo type.Steviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10813189842747989338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-12618226369626615812010-05-26T11:02:16.859-04:002010-05-26T11:02:16.859-04:00Oh my gosh, SUCH a good point about potentially st...Oh my gosh, SUCH a good point about potentially stereotyping Rachel's dads if they did sew her costumes. I suppose what really bothered me was the implication that mom = someone who can sew. Like you magically get sewing skills once you give birth.Gertiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04314542159287533507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-83822500951806079472010-05-26T10:58:53.647-04:002010-05-26T10:58:53.647-04:00I didn't take the comment the same way you did...I didn't take the comment the same way you did I think. I love Glee for busting stereotypes and I found the Dads comment to be another component of that. I think gay fathers who could sew would be more of a stereotype than the comment was, sewing being viewed as a typically feminine role. <br />I agree I would like to see more of Rachel's fathers in the story line but I'm sure it is a tricky line to walk, as evidenced by the comment we're discussing. I'm sure when the writers do bring them in, it's going to be fantastic!<br /><br />~Kelli @ SmidgensKellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16343410224557156646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-39905167138284450432010-05-26T07:57:18.398-04:002010-05-26T07:57:18.398-04:00Now... I've never watched Glee. Maybe I'l...Now... I've never watched Glee. Maybe I'll start next season. But... I have a confession to make. I've been sewing for 20 years and I never made a buttonhole until my Dad died three years ago and it was because he did all mine and my mom's buttonholes. Heck, until five years ago, I never even threaded my own sewing machine--my dad did that, too!<br /><br />Mom taught all my brothers at least how to mend things and sew on buttons. Not that they actually do it--they give the stuff to me because they say I'm better at it! <br /><br />OTOH, my sister-in-law can't sew on a button, and my sister has delusions of sewing grandeur. She's bought all the stuff, claims to be able to sew, but has only ever made one thing in her life and that was with my mom standing over her shoulder. <br /><br />It's not a matter of gender; it's a matter of what you're taught at home. My sister-in-law's mother didn't sew, so my sister-in-law doesn't sew. My mom did some and taught me, but my sisters weren't all that interested, though they and my brothers can mend things.<br /><br />Me, well, I took to sewing. I'm feeling nostalgic this week because I've returned to not only my sewing roots but probably the sewing roots of generations of women--doll clothes. My niece's birthday is next week and I'm giving her clothes to go with the dolly my grandmother bought her.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07717835382469677601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-18446953783755438232010-05-26T07:23:28.450-04:002010-05-26T07:23:28.450-04:00Never take anything on TV that serious..it's j...Never take anything on TV that serious..it's just entertainment..just enjoy it ;-) You can relax and just enjoy the music and the costumes without getting caught up in the symbolism.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-44026821173838694372010-05-26T06:58:13.877-04:002010-05-26T06:58:13.877-04:00I have to admit, I have yet to watch an episode of...I have to admit, I have yet to watch an episode of Glee, but all your posts about the style and such have got me curious. ;) (Even though... *coughcough* I must admit I rather hate musical things--of the full length film or tv sort! rofl.)<br /><br />On the topic of dads who can't sew... I have to agree with the other commenters who pointed out that having gay men be handy in the sewing department would have been terribly predictable/stereotypical. (Thinking about it... most of my gay male friends/acquaintances throughout my life have been artsy, but not necessarily talented or knowledgeable in the area of sewing.) Even though the fact that her <i>mom</i> sews is somewhat cliche, at least the script writers decided to throw viewers for a bit of a non-stereotypical loop by characterizing the dads as less the usual, media-driven picture of a gay male (over the top, fashionista, etc.). <br /><br />Just my $0.02.;)<br /><br />♥ Casey<br />blog | elegantmusings.comCaseyhttp://elegantmusings.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-78672617668050089512010-05-26T03:34:02.159-04:002010-05-26T03:34:02.159-04:00I don't think it was that silly. I have two fr...I don't think it was that silly. I have two friends who grew up in single dad house holds. They always had issues at choir concerts and plays because there dads couldn't sew. Often one of the other girls moms would help them though.Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01702745937207929017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-35358272926367472942010-05-26T01:31:34.111-04:002010-05-26T01:31:34.111-04:00I've been bothered by the absence of the dads ...I've been bothered by the absence of the dads too, and the "My Dads can't sew" line really bugged me. Also when Rachel talked about the glass of water while she's sad thing-- And how now she's all mixed up and can't tell if she's sad or thirsty. I just feel like the dads are a punch line. So many other parents on the show have at least had cameos. <br /><br />Way back in the beginning when Rachel mentioned that she had two Dads, it was treated like it was no big deal. I thought the show seemed like a good opportunity to show that her dads were just her parents, and the fact that they happened to be two men wasn't a factor, but that hasn't really happened. Kinda disappointing. <br /><br />But then again, they could have gone with the "gay men are all theatrical and artsy and of course they know how to sew." Which would also have been stereotyping!Leighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05806062068498419949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259455441759015869.post-92176282556450196032010-05-26T01:08:33.819-04:002010-05-26T01:08:33.819-04:00It seemed like a disconnect to me as well. Yes, th...It seemed like a disconnect to me as well. Yes, they are men and statistically less likely to know how to sew, even being gay men. However, considering how involved and supportive they have been with Rachel's singing aspirations, it seems like at some point they would have had to make her costumes for something, necessitating some basic sewing skills.<br /><br />However, I can dig how making the gay dads fabulous seamstresses might also be kind of trite and stereotypical, so it's sort of a more liberating choice to make the gay dads clueless about sewing. And, of course, it gave Rachel a reason to go ask her mom for help.<br /><br />But then we had Kurt's dad's awesome speech in defense of his gay son, so am happy to let the non-sewing gay dads slide in trade for that.Moehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08462484062508881226noreply@blogger.com